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Sep 2024
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Creating Lasting Memories with Your Chil...

CINDY HOVINGTON, PH.D.
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What if your automatic "no" responses are stealing precious moments of joy with your children? This week, I share an eye-opening personal story about how a spontaneous water gun fight with my kids became a treasured memory and a lesson in the power of saying "yes." We dive into the roots of our instinctual refusals and explore practical strategies to be more present and connected with our children. Discover how tools like emotional intelligence, effective communication, and stress management can enrich your parenting experience and turn fleeting moments into lasting bonds. Plus, I'll highlight some invaluable resources from the new Curious Neuron website and the Reflective Parenting Club to support you on this transformative journey.

Get ready to embrace those brief, joyful moments that can make a world of difference. This episode also teases exciting upcoming conversations, including a deep dive into healthy parent-child relationships with a parent interview, and a chat with a New York-based researcher about the influence of teacher-child interactions on your child's development.

Don't forget to check out the show notes for a free wellbeing kit and other useful tips. Let's make this week about turning some of those "no's" into meaningful "yes's" and finding joy in the little things. Join me and let's reflect on how we can all be more present, compassionate, and emotionally intelligent parents.

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