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Sep 2024
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256. Is dating becoming an idol for you?...

Beatrice Kamau
About this episode

In this episode we chat....

  • Why it's VERY HARMFUL to "see" how things are going and "wait it out" when you KNOW he is a walking dealbreaker
  • How to STOP undermining your dealbreakers when you come across the "nice guy" the guy that seems like "the one"
  • What it looks like to have dating/the marriage thing/the man thing be an IDOL in your life 
  • The dangers of IDOLIZING a man and therefore putting him in God's place

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