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Sep 2024
50m 37s

Overcoming Hyper-Independence - without ...

Nathalie Nimah
About this episode

This one is for the boss babes!


Hyper-independence is so incredibly common & really stands in the way of us creating fulfilling relationships with men!


In this episode we will cover:

  • What hyper-independence is
  • How to recognise it in our own relational behaviour
  • Why it creates disconnection in our relationships
  • WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT


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