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Sep 2024
13m 3s

How to Stand Up for Yourself

Civility Media
About this episode

You want to advocate for yourself more.


But you’re not sure how to do that.


You know you deserve to be heard, but finding the right words—and the confidence to say them—can be tough.


In this episode, I’ll show you 3 simple strategies to stand up for yourself.


Plus, I’ll reveal how to choose your battles wisely, the power of dropping disclaimers, and how to say “no” without feeling the need to justify it.


These strategies will help you assert your worth, set clear boundaries, and navigate difficult conversations with confidence.


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