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Sep 2024
31m 12s

Why we continue to struggle with the sam...

Erika Cramer
About this episode

Do you feel like you seem to struggle with the SAME things?

That no matter how much you try to shift things and DO something different, your resukts remain the same?

If so this episode is for you Queen

I have the pleasure of welcoming my hubby Hamish Cramer back to the show (it's been a minute)

In this chat Hamish shares why he thinks we struggle for so long and what you can do instead if you're really ready to start to see things shift.

We also mentioned an episode I recorded called: "Are you doing the things that make you feel good": https://thequeenofconfidence.com/are-you-doing-the-things-that-make-you-feel-good/

Hamish has given us a FREE breath-work training to support you and get yourself back into balance you can download it here: https://hamishcramer.mykajabi.com/freebie

And if you want to learn about working with Hamish privately you can check out how here: https://hamishcramer.as.me/call15

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