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Sep 22
28m 55s

It's not Confidence, it's FREEDOM

Erika Cramer
About this episode

You don’t need more confidence.

You need freedom.

Most women chasing confidence are chasing the wrong thing. What you’re really craving is the freedom to be fully, unapologetically YOU - without filtering, performing, or pretending.

In this episode, I’m breaking down why confidence is a byproduct - not the goal - and how to step into radical self-trust that makes you magnetic.


Here’s what we dive into:

Why I’m not “confident” (and what I actually am)

How freedom makes you unforgettable and unstoppable

What internal work really looks like (hint: it’s not Instagram coaching)

How to stop letting opinions, perfectionism, and past pain keep you playing small

Why authenticity is rare—and how to reclaim it


This episode is for you if you’re tired of faking it, performing, or waiting for permission to be who you truly are.

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