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Aug 2024
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Coping With Major Losses: 4 Practical Ti...

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Have you ever faced a major loss, whether it's a relationship, your status, or even your health?

In this video, we explore the 4 typical responses people have when dealing with significant loss.

Fr. Mike introduces the "4 Rs: Restore, Replace, Redesign, Relinquish." He explains that while there is no right or wrong approach, understanding these responses can help you determine which one suits your situation best. Familiarizing yourself with the "4 Rs" will guide you through the process of dealing with loss and finding healing.

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