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Aug 2024
1h 26m

Trauma Responses: Why we attract unfulf...

Shane Kohler
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Click here to join the 7 Day Conscious Love Challenge Click here to apply for Private Coaching with Shane   If you've experienced patterns of unfulfilling love in your life, this episode will offer you some important insight.  When we are looking for love, we are often tuning into subtle cues that reflect our past pain.  Believe it or not, this is often what ... Show More
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