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Apr 2025
1h 33m

Situationships: How to let go of what n...

Shane Kohler
About this episode

Ever been in a situationship?  Of course you have! 

Contrary to popular opinion, these are not bad, wrong, or even a mistake.  They are highly relevant experiences in your journey to love that allow you to transform yourself within the context of relationship and come into a greater experience of personal worth and value.

It's not about judging these relationships or yourself for being in them but truly understand what this relationship was for, the purpose it served in your life, and being able to recognize when it's run it's course and extract the value from it.  When you do this, every "situationship" you find yourself in will be short lived, incredibly valuable, and accelerate your journey toward the right person.  When you don't know how to do this, these relationships become highly destructive and crushing to your worth and value.

I hope you enjoy this exciting discussion as we break down the situationship and how to use it to empower yourself and accelerate your growth.      

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