Love isn’t just about butterflies; it’s brain chemistry, choices, and the habits you build together. In this episode, Dr. Gary Lewandowski (Chief Love Scientist at LoveStrategies) unpacks the science behind passion, intimacy, and commitment, how to tell real love from impostors, and why “falling” isn’t enough. If you’ve ever wondered whether love can conquer ... Show More
Today
Why Smart Women Keep Getting Ghosted After Great Dates
We’ve all seen the script play out: The texting is solid. The effort is visible. You feel a genuine connection sparking. And then, silence.Ghosting become the "new normal" of the digital dating era. But as we tell our clients, while ghosting is common, it is never random. Here is ... Show More
33m 4s
Jun 8
Tears, Trust, and Triumph: Tracy's Path from Divorce to Deep Love
In this special client interview, Gary sits down with Tracy, who went from crying on a consultation call to finding her "above average Joe" just weeks after her lowest moment. After 22 years in a dysfunctional marriage, Tracy learned to trust herself and build healthy boundaries. ... Show More
44m 59s
May 2025
The Science of Love, Desire and Attachment - Psychology vs your Biology
Love isn’t just a feeling, it’s a pattern. And patterns, when understood, can be changed. We are the descendants of beings who bonded, lusted, and survived—not by chance, but by biology. In this episode, we explore the elegant architecture of love, divided into three distinct exp ... Show More
21m 44s
Sep 2025
332. The triangular theory of love
We all want to know the secret to true, lasting love so that we can perhaps have a shot at finding it. So in today's episode, we're breaking down perhaps the most famous theory on this very topic, Robert Sternbery's Triangular Theory of Love. In this episode, we talk about: The 3 ... Show More
21m 48s
Oct 2024
"Why You're SABOTAGING Your Love Life" - The Neuroscience of Attraction Revealed
<p>In this powerful episode of The School of Greatness, I dive deep into the fascinating world of love, relationships, and the human brain with three incredible experts. We kick things off with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart, who breaks down the science behind attraction, bonding, ... Show More
1h 10m
Jul 2025
Think It’s Love? 5 Signs It’s Obsession (And It’ll Never Last)
How do you know if it’s love or obsession? What does it mean when you can’t stop thinking about someone who doesn’t return your feelings? In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, and Audrey talk about the phenomenon of limerence, how it can leave you always clinging to hope in dating, ... Show More
1h 22m
<p dir="ltr">Neurochemically, what is love? How can neuroscience help us maintain long-term relationships? Is heartbreak real?</p> <p dir="ltr">In this episode, we discuss the neuroscience and psychology of:</p> <p dir="ltr">• Why falling in love can feel so stressful</p> <p dir= ... Show More
