Love isn’t just about butterflies; it’s brain chemistry, choices, and the habits you build together. In this episode, Dr. Gary Lewandowski (Chief Love Scientist at LoveStrategies) unpacks the science behind passion, intimacy, and commitment, how to tell real love from impostors, and why “falling” isn’t enough. If you’ve ever wondered whether love can conquer ... Show More
Mar 18
7 Things Men Secretly Desire More Than Looks
I made this for the woman who is already successful by every external measure, yet quietly wonders why love still feels harder than it should. If you’ve ever suspected that the real leverage in dating has nothing to do with looking “more perfect,” you’re right, and this will reso ... Show More
15m 16s
May 2025
The Science of Love, Desire and Attachment - Psychology vs your Biology
Love isn’t just a feeling, it’s a pattern. And patterns, when understood, can be changed. We are the descendants of beings who bonded, lusted, and survived—not by chance, but by biology. In this episode, we explore the elegant architecture of love, divided into three distinct exp ... Show More
21m 44s
Sep 2025
332. The triangular theory of love
We all want to know the secret to true, lasting love so that we can perhaps have a shot at finding it. So in today's episode, we're breaking down perhaps the most famous theory on this very topic, Robert Sternbery's Triangular Theory of Love. In this episode, we talk about: The 3 ... Show More
21m 48s
Oct 2024
"Why You're SABOTAGING Your Love Life" - The Neuroscience of Attraction Revealed
<p>In this powerful episode of The School of Greatness, I dive deep into the fascinating world of love, relationships, and the human brain with three incredible experts. We kick things off with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart, who breaks down the science behind attraction, bonding, ... Show More
1h 10m
Jul 2025
Think It’s Love? 5 Signs It’s Obsession (And It’ll Never Last)
How do you know if it’s love or obsession? What does it mean when you can’t stop thinking about someone who doesn’t return your feelings? In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, and Audrey talk about the phenomenon of limerence, how it can leave you always clinging to hope in dating, ... Show More
1h 22m
Jul 2025
The Real Reason Your Relationships Keep Failing—And How to Build One That Actually Lasts | Matthew Hussey (Fan Fav)
This is a Fan Fav episode. Matthew Hussey returns for his fourth conversation with me, and this time, we’re pulling back the curtain on the secrets—and illusions—of lasting love. Together, we unpack the intoxicating highs of lust, why so many of us mistake chemistry for commitmen ... Show More
1h 18m
<p dir="ltr">Neurochemically, what is love? How can neuroscience help us maintain long-term relationships? Is heartbreak real?</p> <p dir="ltr">In this episode, we discuss the neuroscience and psychology of:</p> <p dir="ltr">• Why falling in love can feel so stressful</p> <p dir= ... Show More
