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Jul 11
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This Kind of Love Is Possible: Our Full ...

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About this episode

Welcome back to The Coachable Podcast! In this heartfelt and transformative episode, I’m joined by my partner and divine counterpart, Kyle Herron, for our very first public conversation about how we met, how we fell in love, and how we’re co-creating a conscious relationship built on sovereignty, truth, intimacy, and spiritual alignment.

This isn’t just our personal story—this episode is a roadmap for anyone seeking sacred partnership, emotional safety, and deep, embodied love in a modern world that often settles for performance over presence.

Whether you’re in a relationship, healing from heartbreak, or calling in your life partner—this episode will remind you that the love you truly desire is possible when you’re brave enough to choose yourself first.

🔍 In this episode, we explore:

Our full love story—from Burning Man to divine union

What conscious partnership actually looks like (with real-life examples)

How to know when you’re ready to receive the love you want

Why personal sovereignty and nervous system safety are foundations for real intimacy

The power of sacred agreements, masculine/feminine polarity, and emotional regulation

What we’ve learned about love, grief, self-worth, and God’s timing

❤️ Key Themes:

How to attract aligned love

Spiritual partnership in the age of AI and disconnection

Sacred masculine & divine feminine dynamics

Navigating heartbreak, grief, and healing through relationships

Healthy relationship communication & emotional safety

Radical honesty, vulnerability, and co-creation in partnership

Building a relationship that honors individuality and devotion

🔗 Links & Resources:

📩 Subscribe to our Substack: How to Stay Human
📸 Follow our couples page: @thefairytalefrequency
📲 Follow Tori: @coachtorigordon
🎙️ Watch more episodes: youtube.com/@torigordon
🌐 Learn more about our coaching & offerings: www.torigordon.com

💙 Sponsor Spotlight:

This episode is sponsored by Anywhere Clinic — your go-to destination for holistic mental health care that meets you where you are. From therapy and medication management to cutting-edge treatments like ketamine-assisted therapy and TMS, Anywhere Clinic helps you process trauma, regulate your nervous system, and step into the life you’re here to live.

💻 Visit www.anywhere.clinic/tori to book a session for as low as $120 or check to see if your insurance covers it.
You don’t have to wait for a crisis to seek support—thriving is possible right now.

💬 Favorite Quotes:

“What our relationship is to us—and to the world—isn’t something you come by easily. It’s something forged in the fire.”
“You don’t call in your king by shouting into the void. You call him in by deeply choosing yourself.”
“Love and truth are the same thing. If it’s not true, it’s not love.”


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