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Aug 2024
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Ep. 252 - How to trust yourself when cho...

Breakup Coach Dorothy
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In this episode, we dive into the challenges of trusting yourself to choose a new partner after a breakup. We'll address common fears like repeating past mistakes and struggling with low self-worth, and explore how to overcome these obstacles. Discover six powerful mindset shifts that will help you regain confidence in your decision-making and attract a partner who truly aligns with your values and desires. Tune in to learn how to build trust in yourself, set clear intentions, and embrace your journey toward a better, more fulfilling relationship. Click to listen and empower yourself with the tools to choose wisely and confidently!

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