In this episode, I discuss the importance of showing up for yourself and the impact that has on your self-worth.
Sep 2023
You've Seen What You Needed to See
In this episode, I talk about how what we need to see about a person or situation is usually shown to us, we just need to let ourselves accept it. If you like my thoughts and insights follow me on my socials below for more! To be clear, I am not a therapist! I am just very intere ... Show More
12m 27s
Sep 8
OVERCOMING YOUR EGO AND HOW TO BE A MORE ENJOYABLE PERSON
<div>it's me.....hi......I'm the problem....it's me 😮💨 In this episode, we're talking about why needing to be right, acting superior, taking things too personally, and being too self absorbed makes us harder to be around. I share ways to let go of these habits that push people ... Show More
29m 38s
Aug 19
HOW LIFE FEELS IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN HOW IT LOOKS
<p>In a world that rewards appearances, it’s easy to forget what truly matters. In this episode, we explore the difference between living for the outside world and living for ourselves.</p><p>From letting go of comparison to embracing messy healing, this is your reminder that you ... Show More
8m 58s
Mar 2024
How to Speak Up, Leave the Toxic Relationship, and Actually Save Yourself | Najwa Zebian PT 2
Welcome back to part 2 of this aaaaamazing conversation with my homie Najwa Zebian, the QUEEN of healing and embracing change.
And if you thought part 1 of this convo was powerful, get ready cause we’re going even deeper into understanding WHY choosing to leave a toxic guy is SO ... Show More
57m 48s
Aug 29
Fawning: Answering Your Questions With Dr. Ingrid Clayton
<p>In this conversation, host Monique Koven has invited Dr Ingrid Clayton back to answer your questions. They explore the concept of <em>fawning</em> as a relational trauma response, discussing its implications on identity, relationships, and personal growth. They delve into the ... Show More
50m 39s
Oct 2024
What Is the Difference Between a Christian Mental Health Coach and a Counselor? (How to Identify If You Need a Counselor or a Coach)
One of the most common questions I'm asked during consultations is, "What's the difference between mental health coaching and counseling?" So in this episode, I'm breaking down counseling vs. coaching. Whether you're curious about which path might suit you best or are currently n ... Show More
18m 11s
Sep 9
How To Stay In Control! Even When Conversations Turn Emotional
When someone gets emotional in conversation, it can be tough to know how to respond. In this episode, I share how to keep your cool without shutting them down or losing yourself in the moment. You’ll learn how to recognize your own physical reactions, ground yourself with simple ... Show More
22m 18s
Mar 2025
How Is Trauma Dumping Affecting My Relationships?
This week, JVN sits down with existential psychotherapist and author Dr. Sara Kuburic, widely recognized as the @Millennial.Therapist in Instagram, to delve into the phenomenon of "trauma dumping." We’re exploring the nuances between sharing personal experiences and overloading o ... Show More
41m 20s
Oct 2024
22. the art of detachment (let go or be dragged)
Welcome back to another episode of It Girl Playbook! In today's episode, we're going to talk about the powerful concept of detachment. If you're struggling with letting go of control, whether it's in your personal life, career, or relationships, this episode is tailor made for yo ... Show More
7m 34s