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Jul 2024
27m 19s

#213: Sick of People-Pleasing? Here’s Ho...

Mary Jelkovsky
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People-pleasing is engrained into so many of us. In attempts to be nice, we neglect our own needs, trading authenticity for approval. You will learn how to... - be honest with other people - how people-pleasing relates to self-trust - tips for aligning with your authentic self before making decisions Remember: don’t trade short-term approval for long-term ... Show More
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