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Jan 2025
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#157: You're "Not Enough" but Also "Too ...

Gloria Zhang, MA
About this episode

In today's episode, I tackle the confusing and often painful experience of being told you're 'too much' and 'not enough' simultaneously. This paradox can deeply affect our relationships and self-worth. I'll share three practical tips to help you break free from this mindset, enhance your self-esteem, and build healthier relationships. From embracing imperfections to accepting differing opinions and setting strong boundaries, I'll guide you through actionable steps you can implement right now.

01:36 Understanding the Dilemma
02:06 Personal Experiences and Client Stories
03:27 Tip 1: Embrace Imperfection
11:40 Tip 2: Accepting Different Opinions
18:24 Tip 3: Setting Boundaries and Embracing the Villain Role
19:27 Navigating Friendships and Personal Growth
25:49 Recap and Final Thoughts

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