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Jan 2025
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#157: You're "Not Enough" but Also "Too ...

Gloria Zhang, MA
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In today's episode, I tackle the confusing and often painful experience of being told you're 'too much' and 'not enough' simultaneously. This paradox can deeply affect our relationships and self-worth. I'll share three practical tips to help you break free from this mindset, enhance your self-esteem, and build healthier relationships. From embracing imperfec ... Show More
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