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Jun 2024
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Moving, Relationship Uncertainty and Pro...

ALLISON WETIG AND CEARA KIRKPATRICK
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Ep 180: It’s the last Friday of the month, so you know what that means - a new WWYBD (what would your bestie do) episode, where we answer listener-submitted questions. Listeners can submit questions any time via our website, and then we pull questions to fit a specific theme. 

After a few weeks of traveling, Allison and Ceara are both back home this week. Allison is moving out of her apartment after 4 years so she shares her thoughts about change, grieving and next steps. Ceara just wrapped up a 10 Day Visit California shoot so she’s at home getting rest and seeing friends. 

The advice we give in this episode surrounds confronting someone, boundaries with your loved one’s partners, protecting your peace, making friends in a new city, adjusting to change and a reminder to find a third place. 


QUESTIONS ASKED:

  • My best friend’s boyfriend hates me. Unfollowed and won’t speak to me. What do I do?
  • My sister is in a situationship that is horrible for her and starting to affect our relationship because she’s always crying about him. 
  • My partner and I are moving to a new city soon (getting our own spaces) but I’m questioning our relationship long term. Help? :(
  • Tips for moving to a new city? I'm excited for a new chapter but still nervous about making friends/adapting to change!


MENTIONS:

AFP Episode Moving To A New City

AFP Episode How To Make and Maintain Friends

AFP Episode Loneliness and Finding A 3rd Place


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