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Feb 2024
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E705 Ask Nick - My Coworker Won't Stop F...

Nick Viall
About this episode

Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We’re back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. We start off with a written Ask Nick, who’s boyfriend is still friends with his exes and likes other girls’ photos on instagram. Then we get to our caller… 

Our first caller is in a situationship with a coworker, who has a c*m kink. She’s caught feelings for him, and feels used just for s*x. Our second caller has a coworker, who’s married, and can be a little too touchy. She’s unsure whether he’s flirting with her and wants to set boundaries. Our final caller left the Mormon church and is struggling to receive her mom’s acceptance. She knows her mom loves her, but doesn’t appreciate the constant efforts to force her back in the religion. 

“See it for what it is, rather than making excuses for it and then masking it as you being empathetic”

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