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Jun 2024
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The Self-Fulfilling Prophecy of the Avoi...

KATERINA ELEFTHERIOU
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In this episode, I talk about the trap that avoidants fall into when they fear being a disappointment and how to work through it.

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To be clear, I am not a therapist! I am just very interested in and passionate about self-awareness and personal growth :)

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