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Jun 2024
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Episode 656: How Soon Will An Avoidant B...

LUCIA
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If your ex is an avoidant and you're in no contact, when will they reach out?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals  when you can expect your avoidant ex to contact you.

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