Jun 2025
Essential Insights for Understanding an Avoidant
<p>Do you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners? Are you dating someone who pulls away just when things get close? When this happens, it’s easy to feel lost and wonder if the person you’re dating is avoidant or simply not that interested. In this episode, Matthew, Step ... Show More
57m 9s
Sep 2024
"How do I know what's really me versus what's my mental illness?"
This week licensed therapist Kati Morton talks about distinguishing between our core personality and trauma response, how to figure out what our identity is without our mental illness, and dealing with SA online. She then explains how we can know if we are being lazy, how to ask ... Show More
43m 41s
Mar 2025
Am I Settling? Am I Losing Myself? Relationship Anxiety - Uncut with Georgie Collinson
Have you ever been in a relationship where you asked “am I settling?”
What about am I losing myself, what if I’m not good enough and is this type of relationship normal? Sometimes, particularly if you might be a bit of an anxious person already, it can be really hard to tell the ... Show More
43m 17s
Sep 2024
How Trauma Makes It Hard to Recognize What’s Really Happening
<p>When traumatized people date, it’s easy to detach from reality, and create elaborate constructs that explain why other people do what they do, and why we feel hurt by it – without having to actually admit what's really happening. In this video I respond to a letter from a woma ... Show More
19m 21s
Oct 24
346. How to avoid settling in your 20s
Everyone is secretly searching for the perfect relationship, but what if your relationship is just 'good enough'? What if you feel secure, or fine about the person you're with but secretly want more? In today's episode we break down what it means to settle in your 20s, including: ... Show More
34m 23s
This is a recording of the regular Wednesday live Instagram. On today’s episode we answered these questions 👇…and more… What are the signs that an avoidant ex is forever gone and the relationship has ended Man has been living a double life. He’s been in two relationships while messaging other women. What should I do? Do avoidant people honestly love and ... Show More
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Should you tell your partner about your relationship anxiety? If so, how?</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I’m often asked questions like: </span>"How much should you disclose about your relationship anxiety to your partner to avoid ... Show More
