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May 2024
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#219 The Scary But Normal Thoughts Durin...

BREAK UP BESTIE
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Breakups can cause such intense and obsessive thoughts, some of which can feel very scary. In today's solo episode I go through all the different thoughts you can expect after going through a breakup, why you shouldn't trust your thoughts, reminders that you're far from the only person feeling the way that you can, and how to break those obsessive thought lo ... Show More
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