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Sep 2023
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Ep. 204 - How do I stop second-guessing ...

Breakup Coach Dorothy
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In this episode, the Breakup Coach Dorothy addresses the complex emotions that follow a breakup when you're the one who initiated it. She dives into the feelings of doubt and regret that can arise and outlines how to release regret and make decisions from calm clarity. Whether you've already made the decision to break up and you're feeling regret or you're worried about breaking up because you might feel regretful and second guess yourself, you're going to want to tune in!

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