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May 2024

47m 18s

Your identity has to crumble in order to...

About this episode

Sometimes your Identity has to crumble in order to find yourself; Today we have none other than Bahja Abdi who uses her platform to help others unlock their full potential. Bahja discusses the not so pretty awakening that comes with losing your identity in order to unlock your own unique voice.

Identity Loss can feel challenging, and abrupt; but here are so key steps, of combating these life changes.

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