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Jan 2022
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Why is it so hard for adults to make fri...

AMERICAN PSYCHOLOGICAL ASSOCIATION
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As an adult, making new friends – and maintaining old friendships – can be tough. Life is busy and friends end up taking a backseat to other relationships and responsibilities. Dr. Marisa Franco, psychologist and friendship expert, talks about how to make new friends and strengthen and rekindle old friendship ties, why Americans’ friendship networks are shri ... Show More
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