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Mar 2024
55m 11s

Breaking Family Patterns (Vienna Pharaon...

Elise Loehnen
About this episode
“Part of middle life is that hopefully there's a little bit of wisdom there. And I think that is part of what we gain as we go through this journey of life is that there is wisdom that's accrued, which allows us to exist a little bit more in the complexity and nuance of things. I believe so much of this work is that we have to hold grace and compassion. And ... Show More
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