My maid of honor Julia (!!!) and her fiancé Luke join the show to share their experiences dating while Julia went through medical school and now her residency. We hear what drew them to each other on Coffee Meets Bagel and how their app date turned into a livelong love story. We discuss what how their relationship changed when Julia became a med student, wha ... Show More
Oct 9
Am I Settling or Just Being Realistic?
In this solo episode, I get vulnerable about a big life change I’m going through and what it’s teaching me about growth, and timing. I break down two listener scenarios: one from someone in a long-term relationship wondering if they’re settling because the spark feels missing, an ... Show More
47m 2s
Oct 6
Flying to Italy & a Listener’s Emotional Cheating Confession
Live from Italy, Jake and I are recapping the Jewish holidays, what stuck with us from the rabbi’s sermon, and what it was like hosting a holiday for the first time. We’re sharing the highs and lows from our travel day to Puglia, including our very first business class flight and ... Show More
39m 14s
Jun 2024
Sami & Andrew Spalter’s Love Story Part I: When You Know, You Know!
In this special episode of Transform, host Sami Spalter sits down with her “biggest blessing” — her husband, Andrew Spalter, for part one of their love story and transformative journey together.From a detailed play-by-play of how they met to their whirlwind first dates (we’re tal ... Show More
1 h
Apr 2025
The Healthy Relationship: How To Break Destructive Relationship Patterns
We all have patterns in relationships—some helpful, some destructive. In this solo episode, Jillian breaks down the unconscious behaviors we fall into when we feel out of control—like fighting, fixing, or fleeing—and how they keep us stuck in cycles of disconnection. Whether you' ... Show More
45m 9s
Nov 2024
Thanksgiving With My Wife and Girlfriend
Townsend Davis had been married for more than a decade when his wife, Brigid, was diagnosed with early-onset Alzheimer’s disease. Their lives changed immediately. Townsend became Brigid’s caregiver, sorting her medication day after day, making their home accessible, and finding s ... Show More
52m 9s
Feb 2025
How Are You Contributing To What Is Not Working In Your Love Life? Hard Truths From Relationship Coach Jillian Turecki.
Why self-inquiry is the first ingredient to a healthy relationship. Jillian Turecki is a renowned relationship coach, teacher, author, and host of the podcast, Jillian On Love. Fueled by an insatiable curiosity about what makes a relationship thrive, Jillian has helped thousand ... Show More
1h 6m
Jan 2025
Casual Dating, Demanding Careers And Dating In A New City
In the midst of reflecting and changing, this episode is on theme for the new year shifts you’re trying to make happen! After J&J catch each other up on their holiday breaks, a listener committed to keeping casual wonders how she can keep her anxious dating habits at bay. The Awk ... Show More
1h 5m