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Feb 2025
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Why self-inquiry is the first ingredient to a healthy relationship.

 

Jillian Turecki is a renowned relationship coach, teacher, author, and host of the podcast, Jillian On Love. Fueled by an insatiable curiosity about what makes a relationship thrive, Jillian has helped thousands over the last 20 years through her teachings, courses, and writing to revolutionize their relationship with themselves so that they transform their romantic relationships. 

 

In this episode we talk about:

  • The difference between lust and love
  • How to make the idea of self love more than an empty cliché
  • How to be honest with your partner
  • The myth of finding "the one"
  • How to be your best self even after you've exited the honeymoon stage 
  • And why, if you want a successful relationship, you have to make peace with your parents

 

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