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Feb 2024
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Loneliness in early parenthood: What can...

CINDY HOVINGTON, PH.D.
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Send us Fan Mail Being a new parent can make you feel really alone. But don't worry, I talked to Dr. Kelly Elliott and Dr. Tracy Vozar, and we had a chat that might make you feel better. Today, we talk about the different ways people raise kids and how it can affect our feelings. We also look at how feeling anxious and trying to be the perfect parent can mak ... Show More
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