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Apr 2023
57m 18s

SOS I Keep Arguing with My Partner

Alex Cooper
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Everyone argues with their partner, it’s inevitable. But, many of us are getting it wrong…small issues turn into massive fights, we hold grudges, refuse to apologize, get defensive and say things we regret. Clinical Psychologist and relationship expert Nancy Dreyfus is here to teach how we can turn unproductive arguments into moments of connection. Alex and ... Show More
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