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Jan 2025
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Ep.148 Arguments In A Relationship

Alia Zaita & Yoni Ekoto
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Everyone has their way of dealing with conflict, especially in relationships. Some of us deal with tension head-on, while others need to step away and have some space to think things over on their own. In this episode we wanted to discuss what are the main arguments we run into as a married couple, what patterns we also tend to fall into, and how each of us deals with finding a resolution in the midst of disagreements and tension.


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