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Jan 2023
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100. What’s beneath the conflict with Fi...

Amber Dalsin
About this episode

If you are struggling with conflict in your relationship Figs provide insight into how couples get into fights, and how come it’s hard to get out of the conflict.


Topics covered in the podcast:

- Couples conflict

- Changing from a me vs. you to us vs. the problem

- Raw feelings that lie beneath the conflicts

- Attachment

- Wounds in relationships


To learn more about Figs:

www.Empathi.com


Link for course: empathi.com/psych


To get the course: Create an empathi.com account and visit  to redeem our flagship Conflict Solution course, free of charge



This podcast is for informational purposes only.

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