I know how much it sucks to be distant from your partner, to walk on eggshells wondering if your next step is going to set off a landmine, feeling hurt frustrated abandoned overwhelmed and not sure how to repair. All couples are going to have fights and it's important to learn how to make things better after these fights happen.
In this podcast, we talk abou ... Show More
Nov 2024
124. 3 Reasons You’re Having Conflicts, Not Peaceful Conversations
When couples start therapy they often tell me they want to communicate better, have tools for how to communicate, want the relationship to be more peaceful, and want a level of respect and kindness. Do you relate? I know I want a peaceful relationship with respect and kindness. W ... Show More
11m 54s
Jan 2024
122. 4 sticking points to overcome to be a better communicator
If you and your partner want to improve your communication in 2024, here are 4 common sticking points that you will need to overcome. January is a time of New Year resolutions, commitments to do better, and learning something new. Here are 4 things to consider if you and your par ... Show More
16m 2s
Apr 2021
Part 2: How to Communicate With an Angry Partner | E246
Are you always walking on eggshells? In part two of our "Communication Problems, and How to Fix Them" mini-podcast series, we're going be talking about how to tame the tiger glaring at you from across the living room, and bring the peace back into your home. If you haven't alread ... Show More
35m 59s
Jul 2024
How To Fight Without Fighting (Part 1)
In this episode, John and Vanessa discuss the value of fighting in relationships and how to fight without actually fighting. They emphasize the importance of understanding before trying to be understood, shifting from a combative approach to a more empathetic one, being aware of ... Show More
21m 4s