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Dec 2023
35m 44s

Leadership vs. Popularity, Insights from...

Kwame Christian Esq., M.A.
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In this compelling episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian welcomes Robin Dreeke, a former FBI spy recruiter and acclaimed author, to explore the profound nuances of human interaction and trust. Dreeke delves into the fine line between self-centeredness and being others-focused, emphasizing the vital role of adopting a problem-solving attitude over harboring grievances. With a wealth of experience in counterintelligence, he provides invaluable insights into creating healthy alliances and the transformative power of genuine curiosity. Listeners are treated to a masterclass on leveraging openness and ego management in building effective communication and leadership.






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