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Nov 2023
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1956: “I Love You, But…” How Couples Hea...

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Dr. Margaret Rutherford talks about how couples hear and deal with criticism

Episode 1956: “I Love You, But…” How Couples Hear And Deal With Criticism by Dr. Margaret Rutherford on Navigating Arguments With Your Partner

Dr. Margaret Rutherford has been a psychologist in private practice for over twenty-five years. She’s the author of “Perfectly Hidden Depression”, and hosts a weekly podcast, SelfWork with Dr. Margaret Rutherford, where she offers compassionate common-sense directions, ideas and goals toward the changes listeners want to make in healing. 

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