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Apr 2024
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2542: Four Vital Things to Realize When ...

Optimal Living Daily | Dr. Neal Malik
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Episode 2542:

Discover the vital insights Dr. Margaret Rutherford offers on resolving parenting conflicts in a constructive manner. Through her work, you'll learn about the importance of appreciating differences, managing personal insecurities, and fostering cooperation in parenting, leading to a healthier and more balanced family dynamic.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/how-to-solve-the-parenting-debate-four-important-realizations/

Quotes to ponder:

"Parenting is one of the toughest jobs in the world. There’s no rehearsal. No interview process. You haven’t a clue what it’s going to be like, and suddenly, you’re hired."

"Appreciate and be grateful for your differences. Maybe your partner announces on a sunny Saturday morning, 'It’s a gorgeous day! Let’s take the kids for a hike!' But you’d planned chores for the day."

"Manage your own insecurity. Parenting is the most ambiguous task you’ll ever do. None of us know for certain what the outcome will be."

Episode references:

The Four Agreements: https://www.amazon.com/Four-Agreements-Practical-Personal-Freedom/dp/1878424319

How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It: https://www.amazon.com/Improve-Your-Marriage-Without-Talking/dp/0767923189

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