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Apr 2023
35m 58s

How to Stop Obsessing About Your Ex (Psy...

Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski
About this episode

In this episode, our hosts Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski share their expert tips on how to move on from a past relationship.

They start by emphasizing the importance of not romanticizing the past and instead, writing down why the relationship ended. Our hosts explain how removing physical reminders and not trying to remain friends with your ex can also help in the process of moving on.

Furthermore, they discuss how it's essential to reframe the end of a relationship as a building block rather than a failure, just like your first job. Our hosts provide insights into how to get healthy and build a strong support structure to help you cope with the breakup.

If your ex tries to contact you, our hosts provide advice on what to say to them. Additionally, they introduce a unique perspective on speaking to your 80-year-old self and what she would say about the situation.

If you're struggling to let go of a past relationship, this episode is for you. Tune in to learn from Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski on how to stop obsessing about your ex and take the first step towards a happier and healthier future.

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