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Dec 2024
10m 39s

Ep. 267 - What to do with your happy mem...

Breakup Coach Dorothy
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In today's episode, we dive into a common post-breakup challenge: handling the happy memories with your ex that keep pulling you back. If you find yourself frequently lost in nostalgic moments, wondering how to balance these memories with your current path to healing, this discussion is for you. We explore a transformative approach that doesn't erase the past but empowers you to live fully in the present. Tune in to learn how you can reshape your relationship with these memories, allowing them to coexist with your journey towards a brighter, independent future. This episode offers key insights and practical strategies to help you navigate your emotional landscape more effectively. Join us to find out how to turn those memories into stepping stones for personal growth.

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