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Nov 2023
36m 3s

Pushing Past Perfection: The Parenting T...

Audacy and Big Little Feelings
About this episode
If you’re struggling with burnout, this episode will literally change your life. Child Therapist Deena Margolin and Parent Coach Kristin share their number one parenting tool: the 80/20 rule. This parenting strategy is so easy you can start it TODAY, and will instantly take the pressure off, leading to a happier, healthier you.  On this empowering episode, ... Show More
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