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Oct 2023
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#115. Regulating your nervous system *might* just be the secret to not only better relationships, but to a better life as a whole. We are sitting down with LA-based women’s & couples therapist, Gayane Aramyan, LMFT to discuss emotional flooding, it’s causes, and strategies to regain a sense of control over our emotions. 


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