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3 Perspectives Making My Life Significan...

Payton Sartain
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#267. This week, we’re talking about three ideas making my life materially better (none of them are for sale). Satisficing, raising my uncertainty threshold, and creating as a response to over-thinking. BTW– next week’s episode is my last episode before a fall break!                                                                                              ... Show More
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