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Sep 2023
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Ep. 206 - Why do I feel addicted to my e...

Breakup Coach Dorothy
About this episode

Have you ever found yourself asking, "Why do I feel so addicted to my ex?" Well, today, we've got answers and a roadmap to help you break free from those compulsive behaviors that seem to take over your life. Breakups have a unique way of turning even the most empowered and resilient individuals into someone they don't recognize.

Join us in this eye-opening episode as we delve into the profound psychology of post-breakup attachment and the reasons behind those persistent, seemingly uncontrollable actions that are anything but characteristic of you. Whether it's the relentless calls to your ex, the incessant checking of your phone in hopes of their message, or the constant scrutiny of your social media stories for their engagement, if you're struggling to move on, this episode was crafted with you in mind.

In this transformative conversation, we'll equip you with practical steps and strategies to understand, cope with, and ultimately overcome your ex addiction. It's time to regain control over your emotions, thoughts, and actions and embark on a journey toward healing and self-empowerment.

Previous episode: Ep. 131 - When your ex is struggling with addiction w/ Karilyn Ivers

Karilyn Ivers Podcast: https://www.karilynivers.com/podcast

Biology of Desire: https://www.amazon.com/Biology-Desire-Why-Addiction-Disease/dp/1610397126

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