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Sep 2023
24m 33s

Which One Habit Can Improve Self Love?

Todd Perelmuter
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Send me a message We all want love. We love love. But there is no one who can love us harder or more intimately than ourselves. So how do we love ourselves? Why are we so hard on ourselves? What even is self love? Is it a spa day, a doughnut, or a new pair of shoes? In today's podcast, I explore the most important thing we can do to change that inner voice ... Show More
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