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Aug 2023
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70: How social media is turning you agai...

NATALIE KENNEDY
About this episode

In this episode, I share how polarizing, black-and-white content on social media is pinning people against each other. I will also admit that I fell prey to this and started a fight with my husband before recording this episode. I also share what I learned from it and how I plan to do better.

 

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6:50 The fights that my husband and I have had

10:25 Some of the messages I’ve received about men from social media

15:59  The fight that we had today

22:45  How your pain can activate your partner’s pain

24:00 The importance of taking space when needed during arguments

31:50  The overwhelming fear of getting the short end of the stick in relationships

34:00  Nuanced content does not get attention on social media

36:55 Keeping the assumption that your partner loves you more than anything

41:00  Learning how to better have arguments

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