Lets have a convo about what watering your marriage looks like, beyond all the cliches, and into the reality of the sometimes having to have uncomfortable moments. Im letting you in and telling you the things I struggle with in my own marriage, and some tips on how to FIGHT FAIR; believe me I am no saint but these tips do f*cking work and Im here to tell you ... Show More
Jul 6
293. The Marriage Advice I No Longer Agree With
Some of the marriage advice we've all been given is... complete bullshit. Okay, maybe not all of it—but a surprising amount of it hasn't held up in my own marriage. In this episode, I'm sharing the relationship advice I no longer agree with, why I've changed my mind, and what I t ... Show More
50m 53s
Jun 22
291. What Married Men Secretly Wish Women Knew About Sex ft. Stirling Cooper
What do married men secretly wish women understood about sex, intimacy, and desire? In this candid conversation, Stirling Cooper joins me to discuss the biggest disconnects between husbands and wives in the bedroom, what men often struggle to communicate, how confidence impacts a ... Show More
1h 20m
Aug 2023
The Unspoken Rules Of Arguing With Your SO
This week, we’re talking big life moments professionally and personally! Jordana is officially a homeowner and moving into her new house. Meanwhile, Jared is showing up on Netflix streams worldwide. Then, our first email asks about etiquette in couples’ quarrels. Is it a red flag ... Show More
1h 17m
Nov 2025
episode 5: marriage beyond your pinterest board + honest q&a
hi everyone welcome back or welcome to the as you are podcast! this episode I talk about a few things I’ve learned in the last 2 years of being married and the truths behind marriage and things to prepare for beforehand, such as communication, love languages, unlearning, healing ... Show More
39m 54s
Mar 2025
Porn, Passwords & Cheating
In this unfiltered episode, Lynnie, Shantal, and Gary dive into some of the most controversial topics in modern relationships. Can a relationship survive infidelity? Should you share passwords with your partner? Is jealousy healthy—or toxic? And where’s the line between porn and ... Show More
39m 13s