<p>Listen Closely For:
- Debunking the myth that adults cannot be abandoned
- The impact of developmental trauma on adult behavior
- The importance of taking responsibility in relationships
- The damage caused by abandonment at any age
- Understanding the truth about abandonment in adulthood.</p>
Jun 27
Are You Triggered by Having to Put Effort Into a Relationship?
With ever increasing intensity, people who have been coming to me with relationship problems, have been apathetic to doing the very things that would improve the relationship. And a pattern is emerging. The pattern of effort itself being a trigger. And so, let’s take a look at th ... Show More
20m 12s
Jun 20
How To Heal Positivity Trauma
Believe it or not, it is possible to feel negative about positive. If you or someone you know, is one of those people who has positivity trauma, it can feel like you or they are up against a wall regarding what to do about it. Which is why, I am going to explain how to heal posit ... Show More
21m 31s
May 2025
How Trauma Responses Shape Us as Adults
Today, John and Vanessa unpack the lesser-known 'fawn' trauma response and how it often shapes adult relationships through people-pleasing and self-abandonment. They emphasizes the transformative power of setting boundaries, reclaiming one’s voice, and embodiment (the practice of ... Show More
26m 39s
Sep 2019
24. "Go Ahead and Free Yourself" Overcoming Abandonment Issues
<p>Hey Girl Hey!</p> <p> </p> <p>This week's topic is overcoming abandonment issues! In this episode we get into deep topics like: the origins of abandonment issues, what abandonment looks like, how abandonment affects our habits, and how abandonment affects our self esteem.</p> ... Show More
20m 49s
Apr 2021
98. Abandonment, Re-parenting, & Relationships
<p>Hey sis!</p> <p>This week we are talking all about the importance of re-parenting and the role it plays in abandonment wounds/trauma. If you struggle with handling break-ups/ghosting/people leaving without notice, you'll WANT to hear this.</p> <p>Make sure to register for Noth ... Show More
16m 9s
Jul 2025
Dr.K Breaks Downs Your Biggest Fears
In this episode, Dr. K explores the deep psychological roots of abandonment trauma and how it can shape a person’s personality, perception, and relationships. Through live questions and community voicemails, he shares actionable strategies for healing from early trauma, building ... Show More
1h 59m
Feb 2023
EP 308: The Truth about Fear of Abandonment (and What to do About it!)
Do you ever feel overwhelmed by fear of abandonment? To cope with fear of abandonment, one should focus on self-soothing, slowing down emotional investment, and gathering data on people to determine whether or not a relationship is worth the investment. Doing this can reduce fear ... Show More
33m 42s