logo
episode-header-image
Aug 2023
11m 36s

(Rewind): Why You Should Stop Thinking T...

MATTHEW HUSSEY
About this episode
"I should be over them by now...but what if they were 'The One'?" "Will I ever love someone that way again?" It's normal to go through feelings of panic and regret when someone breaks up with us whom we love and admire. Or when we look back on the good qualities they have and worry if they were the ONLY person who can make us happy. But this kind of thinking can be a trap for many reasons. In this clip, Matt explains an unexpected way of looking at the situation after a breakup that can help to heal your heartbreak. --- ►►Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days Find Out More At. . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com
Up next
Yesterday
304: Why Finding Love Starts With Redefining Success (Feat. Sahil Bloom)
In today’s episode, Matthew is joined by bestselling author Sahil Bloom, whose book The Five Types of Wealth challenges everything we think we know about success. Together they dive into the tension between chasing money and cultivating a deeply fulfilling life—especially in the ... Show More
1h 8m
Jul 7
(Matt Monday): They Ghosted You? Here’s the Only Response That Wins
If you’ve ever been ghosted, you know how brutal it feels. It’s like the floor suddenly dropped out from under you. But here’s the truth: Ghosting isn’t about you—it’s usually about the other person’s immaturity or inability to have a hard conversation. In this episode, I’ll expl ... Show More
20m 34s
Jul 4
(Rewind): You’ll Push Them Away if You Try Too Hard. Do This Instead
In this week's episode of Love Life, I speak with Sarah who had just started dating her "dream guy" before things took a turn for the worst when she left for a week. With his attention lost, we discuss the subtle ways she can regain it. -- ►► Discover What the Most Confident Vers ... Show More
9m 31s
Recommended Episodes
Sep 2017
#100 How Do You Stop Loving Someone And Move On After Your Breakup And Should You Un-friend Your Ex On Social Media?
This is Breakup Recovery’s 100th episode where I asked listeners to send in the questions that they wanted me to cover in this special episode. I shared my insights, tips and strategies on a number of topics ranging from ‘how do you stop loving some one so much?’, ‘how do I move ... Show More
21m 25s
Dec 2019
If You Love Someone, Let Them Go
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!You've heard it phrased in various ways. "If you love someone, let them go. If they come back to you, they are yours forever. If they don't come back, they never were yours." What a ridiculous idea! Maybe it originated with someone tryi ... Show More
1h 4m
Apr 2023
#66: How to Leave a Relationship (When You Know You Need To)
In this episode, we're talking about how to leave a relationship from the perspective of knowing that you need to. Break-ups are hard - no matter the circumstances - and most of the advice tends to be directed toward people who've been broken up with, rather than those ... Show More
21m 12s
Oct 2021
When will I get over my breakup?
Search “How long does it take to get over a break up?” and you’ll find answers ranging from three weeks to three-and-a-half years. Despite heartbreak being one of the most universal human experiences, we know very little about what—and how LONG—it takes to get over someone. On th ... Show More
20m 43s
Mar 2018
S1E1: Getting Under to Get Over
It’s common advice after a breakup: The best way to get over an ex is to get under someone new. But does it work? Is rebound sex empowering, or does it just leave you feeling lonelier? Meredith Goldstein explores the emotions -- and the science -- at play in one of life’s most vu ... Show More
25m 34s
Oct 2021
Healing Heartbreak
This week Kat (@kat.defatta) is going solo again to talk about why breakups suck so bad. Kat breaks down what we go through behind the scenes of heartbreak. The obvious grief of losing the normalcy of a relationships makes sense. . . But what else do we lose and have to reorganiz ... Show More
39m 53s
Jun 2024
406: Is it a mistake to get back together with an ex?
Have you been thinking about getting back together with your ex? It's completely natural to wonder if getting back together with an ex is a mistake, or if it might be the beginning of a beautiful new chapter in your relationship. In this episode, I'm here to offer you the clarity ... Show More
34m 59s
Mar 2023
#55: "I can't help but hope that my ex comes back. How do I let go so I can move on?"
In this Q&A episode, we're talking all about moving on after a break-up. Specifically, what to do when we want to move on, but deep down we're still very much hoping our ex will reach out and want to rekindle.We cover:the importance of allowing ourselves to feel our fee ... Show More
11m 17s
Nov 2023
S6, Ep 5 Best Friend Therapy: The Break-Ups MINISERIES - Romantic Heartbreak, Why it Hurts and How to Heal
In a first for Best Friend Therapy, we bring you a four-part MINISERIES, all about break-ups. We'd be lying if we said it was intentional but we quickly realised there was far too much to say about romatic break-ups, let along friendship break-ups, family break-ups and work break ... Show More
43m 43s
Mar 2023
How to let go and move on because you deserve BETTER
This is the ultimate breakup guide and podcast for anyone trying to move on and let go, because you deserve better. You deserve someone who will commit to you and give you the world. Why are you settling? In this episode, I discuss my perspective on this topic and dive into my ow ... Show More
27m 54s