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Aug 2023
17m 40s

Stop Seeking Your Ideal Self In Someone ...

KATERINA ELEFTHERIOU
About this episode
In this episode, I talk about why you shouldn’t attach to people because you think they will reflect an ideal version of you, how to recognize if you’re doing it, and how to stop. 
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