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Jan 2024
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Stop projecting a fantasy of what someon...

Lyss Boss
About this episode
Do you fantasize a lot about the potential of a person? Then this episode is for you. If you continue to try to change or mold someone into something that they're not, you're simply wasting your time and energy. Just listen! :) JOIN THE DARE TO DETACH MASTERCLASS And remember to download my free higher self meditation and free worksheet! xx 
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