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Jul 2023
54m 48s

Communication Skills: Reacting Versus Re...

DR. LISA MARIE BOBBY
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We've all been there: Your partner says something that just inflames you, and you say something you regret later. Or you instinctively defend yourself and withdraw when things get tense, rather than leaning into a healthy and productive courageous conversation. We all know that being able to react vs. respond is a cornerstone of emotional intelligence, and ... Show More
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