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Jul 2023
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Why You Want Them MORE When They’re “Not...

MATTHEW HUSSEY
About this episode

Are you one of those people who “loves the chase” in dating? You meet someone, you find them attractive, maybe even go on a date, and you start to become MORE obsessed when they show you less attention, less affection, or when they play hot and cold. Or worse, when someone shows you kindness and loyalty, and treats you with the kind of affection you so crave deep down, it pushes you further away from them. What is going on here?! In this week’s new episode, I reveal the truth about why we fall so hard for people who give us crumbs of attention, and show you a simple mindset shift that will help you find a passionate and loving relationship.


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